My First Henna : : Reshma Femme Henna Natural Highlights

My First Henna : : Reshma Femme Henna Natural Highlights


It’s been a long time coming. I knew I would eventually give in and FINALLY try HENNA!!! I don’t know why I hadn’t tried it yet. It seemed only natural for me to since I love ayurvedic treatments and this is like the prestige of them all lol. So, I decided to just get over my fear and DO it finally. I mean, I’ve heard about it and seen it EVERY where for years. The results I’ve seen on other people are usually amazing and no one really has anything bad to say about it (as far as the effectiveness it has for hair).

I was (am still a bit!) so intimidated by henna, I guess because it’s such a particular process, there’s so many kinds, brands, mixtures, steps, etc. etc. etc. I just got overwhelmed by it! It seemed like every person who does henna has their own process and recipe. When I get overwhelmed I just shut down and say forget it lol BUT to my luck, a PR firm sent me a package FULL of henna treatments by Reshma Femme!! I was like, this MUST be the sign to just go ahead and take that leap of faith lol It’s really silly that I am intimidated by this simple green powder lol So thanks to Reshma Femme, my fears have now been conquered! You can find this brand of henna in beauty supply stores and Sally stores nation wide which is super convenient!  ***UPDATE — many people have told me that Reshma Femme Henna appeared in a recent CurlBox! If you have it, try it out!! :o)

The package from Reshma Femme had 4 varieties of their henna and 2 facial masks :o) I was so grateful! The 4 varieties are Toffee, Dark Chocolate, Playful Plum and Natural highlights. When I say varieties, I mean the henna is pre-mixed with other natural herbs like amla and indigo, to create the various colors. Lots of people mix their own herbs to create their own colors but Reshma Femme takes the guess work out and makes it easier to get a perfect proportions for color blends. Here’s the breakdown:

  • Natural highlights is just pure henna, strait up
  • Playful Plum is henna and Indigo for blackish, plum tones
  • Toffee is Henna, Amla, Shikakai, Bhilwa, Hibiscus, Ratan Jot
  • Dark Chocolate   <—- I know, I still need to get the ingredients on this one!

All of the variations are 100% pure and natural and don’t contain any additive ingredients. Sadly, there are lots of henna brands out there that are not 100% natural and contain fillers but Reshma Femme is completely pure and natural so that made me feel good :o)

So what’s the hype about henna? Well, besides is being a natural way to color your hair (henna will NOT lighten your hair, only give you red highlights in its pure form and browns and blacks mixed with other herbs), it provides serious conditioning, makes your hair super shiny and thickens your strands thus making your hair stronger and healthier. It also helps cure head lice, dandruff and ring worm which is cool. Oh it also loosens your curl pattern. Some people either love or hate that part. I don’t mind it since I have SEVERE shrinkage (my hair is about 50-60% longer than it looks!) If you don’t want to loose the curl pattern, you can always reverse it by using amla which enhances curl pattern and tones down the red from the henna. The more you use henna, the deeper the color and the more the conditioning, it’s like wine, it gets better with age lol. Some people use it every week and some maybe once a month. Not sure how often I will use it though. I gotta see how I feel lol but I guess to really reap the benefits you have to use if consistently often.

OK so Moving along…I will kind of give you a play by play of my process using the pics below so you can see what everything looked like at each step :o) This is a really long kind of a long post so bear with me. Hopefully it’s informative though!

I decided to start with the plain henna, Natural Highlights HK 6A, to see how henna worked out in its purest form with no other ayurvedic herbs mixed in. I will probably try the browns next and then the plum since that will be the darkest.


Each Reshma Femme box of henna comes with a pair of gloves, a packet of oil and instructions (and of course the henna!). I wish the gloves were a bit stronger because mine definitely tore in the crevice of my fingers but luckily it was towards the end of my application so the henna wasn’t sitting on my skin long enough for it to stain them. Next time I’m going to get a hold of some latex gloves that are a bit more durable.reshma_femma_henna_hk6a_1

Here’s the henna powder. I learned that the finer it is sifted, usually means it’s of higher quality and and the most dye content. Henna used as body art is finely sifted so lots of brands that market their henna as “Body Art Quality” are typically better to use. Reshma Femme is of this quality :o)reshma_femma_henna_hk6a_3

There are a million things people use to mix their henna but I wanted to just start out simple and stick with plain ole water. I did add a few squirts of lemon juice because lemon juice helps the henna produce a better dye release if you are aiming to get more color. I also added a few drops of a mixture of essential oils just because. I read on Minimalist Beauty (who btw, has become one of my fav bloggers because she has AWESOME DIY recipes and is very thorough with her posts!) that she uses coconut milk as her base. I think I may try that next time:o) I have also seen others use tea so I may try that another time as well. Oh and I guess you’re supposed to use warm or hot water/tea and let it sit somewhere warm. I didn’t. oops…

So here’s what the henna looks like just mixed with water. It’s naturally a green color and was a bit slimy in consistency. It had a few chunks but I found that after it sat the moisture absorbed and the chunks went away. I would not recommend using a plastic container because the henna will stain it (if you care) since they are usually porous. I just used a ceramic bowl and covered it with saran wrap while it was sitting.reshma_femma_henna_hk6a_4

So I let the mixed henna sit overnight because I don’t mind the color that henna gives (the longer it sits, the more dye release). I figured hey, why not get the color while I’m at it. You don’t have to let it sit for that long (the package says for 1-3 hours). Either way, after you let it sit, you will see the red dye released as a liquidy red layer on top of the paste.***SIDEBAR—  I am always AMAZED by God’s creation. How in the world did He think, “OK I’m going to make a plant that is all GREEN but when you dry it out and mill it into powder, add water to it, it will create a RED dye…oh and it conditions and colors hair!!!” How can anyone NOT be amazed by our creator and his genius ways….im just saying! :o)reshma_femma_henna_hk6a_5

Ok, so once I was ready to go, I prepped my bathroom….ok don’t laugh at me, I kinda OD’ed on the prep. I literally covered every part of my bathroom with paper i.e.the counter top, the walls, the floor, the toilet, lol I just know I am not the neatest when it comes to hair treatments so I prepared for a henna war lol And needless to say, I really only needed to cover the counter top! Go figure lol better safe  than sorry cause henna stains! Oh, I was also paranoid that I would dye my forehead, ears and neck so I slapped on gobs of Vaseline as if I were about to get a relaxer lol yea, didn’t really need to do that either. And ANOTHER thing, I made sure I wore an old t-shirt so that I wouldn’t stain my shoulders…probably didn’t have to that either since the henna just wiped off easily without dying my skin lol I’m a beginner ok! :o) I was looking all kinds of crazy!! I just can’t thank my boyfriend enough for being so understanding and non-judgmental with my hair adventures lolreshma_femma_henna_hk6a_2Once I was ready to start the application, I mixed the red dye back into the henna paste, added the EO’s and sectioned my hair into about 6 sections. Since I had no idea what I was doing, I applied the henna to dry, dirty hair. I think I was supposed to do it on clean, damp hair (the total opposite) next time lol…..see these are those particular things I was talking about with henna. I don’t know what’s right or wrong, better or worse lol I still got good results either way so maybe it’s just whatever works for you (as with all things!).

OK so I applied the paste to my hair, normally I would leave my hair in the sections but I left it out so I could take pics and show you guys. Take a looksie. It’s nice to see my hair with some length lol you can really see the layers I’m always complaining about:


peep the paper taped to my walls lolreshma_femma_henna_hk6a_7

I may need to cut the lower layers to be a bit more uniform with the bulk of my hair. It looks so sad just dangling like that lol but it’s so long, down to my bra strap…. :o(reshma_femma_henna_hk6a_8

So I sectioned my hair back up and pinned it on the crown of my head. Ok here’s where I OD’d again lol I put a plastic cap on and proceeded to wrap saran wrap around my head like 6 times lol I was paranoid the henna would drop or crumble out and get on stuff!! Needless to say, I wrapped my Christmas edition Saran wrap way too tight lol my head started to hurt a little lol I probably only needed to wrap it around once or twice but yea since I had the henna in all day (about 7 hours, the package said leave it for 1-3), I wanted to make sure I didn’t get it all over the place. Lots of people just sleep with it overnight. Given my track record, I am a wild sleeper so I am not sure how well that would work out for me lol Here’s me looking crazy in my plastic wrap turban lolreshma_femma_henna_hk6a_9 The hair at my nape and my daggone sideburns are ALWAYS hard to cover with plastic caps/wraps and scarves, guess I’ll just let them be… *sigh* reshma_femma_henna_hk6a_10

When it was time to rinse, (ok don’t laugh at me again lol) I hopped in my bath tub on my hands and knees facing down and let the water from the faucet loosen up the henna and rinse most of it out. I did this because I didn’t want the water and henna splashing all over the shower and staining my shower curtain lol although this method isn’t the most comfortable, it worked! After the water was running somewhat clear, I turned the shower on and continued to rinse.

I then used a combo of my inexpensive conditioners (Trader Joe’s Tea Tree Tingle and Nature’s Gate) and sort of lathered any remaining bits of the henna out. I did this 2 times. After I rinsed the conditioner out, I followed up with  Bee Mine Deep Conditioner to make sure I replenished the moisture back in my hair since henna can be drying. I let my hair dry and I noticed my scalp was kind of itchy so I jumped online and saw that Reshma Femme has a community board where people can comment and I saw that the itchiness was because I probably didn’t rinse the henna all from my scalp. Jumped BACK in the shower and washed with a shampoo bar (used my Bobeam Rhassoul Clay bar this time hehe). So I know from now on to shampoo in the rinsing out process.

Now since this is my first henna treatment, the color didn’t turn out very vibrant BUT I’ve read that it takes a few days for the color to oxidize and deepen which in fact it did.

Here’s my hair freshly rinsed. My hair was sooooooo shiny!! I didn’t notice much curl loosening but I guess that would happen over time, using henna often. I also noticed that frizziness was drastically decreased which made my twist-outs appear more defined. The henna REALLY smoothed my hair cuticle and made my hair feel thicker all after just one application. I know it’s really hard to visually see what I am talking about in the pics but I definitely could see and feel a difference. Hopefully over the course of the year as I continue to use henna (not sure how frequent) you will be able to see the color deepen in my pics.

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Here’s a couple bonus pics of my hair a few days after the treatment. I could really start to see more of the red tones in certain lighting. The color reminds me of the auburn color I had about a year ago. Mostly on the tips of my hair since they are lighter. But check out the SHINE!!!! I am blown away by it! I used Oyin Handmade Whipped Pudding for the twist out below by the way….oh and if you click that link, you will see the auburn color I was referring to. I used a boxed permanent color to achieve that but it would be cool to get close to that again naturally using henna.

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You can see hints of the red in the flick below :o)reshma_femma_henna_hk6a_16


I’ll keep you posted on my henna adventures! PLEASE give me your tips if you’re a henna head!


40 Responses

  1. Ps using the henna remedy every 2 weeks is best especially for good hair treatment!

  2. Hi I’m a Asian fair skin and natural black brown hair. Hairdye ruined my hair at a young age and henna is definitely the most best and natural way to treat your hairs color and care! I have tried henna on its own but since my hair has become more grey top and forehead mostly it dyes a deep orange red. So brewing tea and mixing it with 2/3 henna and 3/3 or 4/3 with indigo powder is pretty good! Btw you have a sweet friendly personality

    • Hi Nimisha! Thanks so much for your comments and compliment, so happy you found my blog (which is long, long overdue for an update!). I share the same sentiment about henna! I have heard about the indigo toning down the red henna on grey hair. I have a few grey hairs and they turn bright orange red too! Strangely I kind of like them for now :o)

  3. love the color! Yes there are so many didn’t brands of Henna and reading the ingredients is a must. Many have chemicals equivalent to a commercial permanent dye product….so watch out, don’t let the word Henna on the package fool you. I have had natural hair for 11 years now since 2004 and simply love it! Do you know of any pure Henna products that will give your hair blonde highlights? Thank you

    • Yup, you are right! Unfortunately henna does not have the capability to lighten dark hair. The only way to do that is to use chemicals that bleach your hair. Henna coats your hair so it does not chemically alter the color. BUT if you already have light hair, cassia can make blonde hair more vibrant. Hope this helps!

    • The henna looks AWESOME! I am looking to use henna mostly as a way to add color to my natural black tresses. I realize it doesn’t add color but I hope it gives my black hair a tint. Did you have highlights before applying henna? What color was your hair before henna?

      • Thanks!! Henna will add red highlights and you really will see them most in sunlight. Yup, my hair in these pictures did have a bit of left over color from a previous permanent hair dye job so it looks a bit more highlighted than it does now (black/brown with no permanent color). I really do henna for the conditioning benefits over the color. Either way its a win win!

    • Omg please forgive me for JUST replying back!! Thank you for finding my site and for your comment!! Did you ever end up doing the henna?! How did it turn out?!

  4. I got the natural black reshma henna, I wonder if it will cover my grey hair line and if I should mix tea or coffee with it?

    • I am not sure how well the black covers grey. The thing with henna is it’s a gradual process for the color meaning the more times you do a treatment the deeper the color. So you may not have full coverage after one use. I do know regular henna makes grey hair bright orangy red but I am not how the Indigo covers. I think coffee and tea will help deepen the color!

  5. Hey, I love your results! Beautiful. I have used Reshma Femme in Raven Black for a couple yearsnow, and I love it. I buy mine online. Just a sidebar…please do NOT use metal spoons, utensils, or bowls when mixing henna and certain hair dyes. A chemical reaction can occur and that would not begood. Certain plant powders are not to me mixed in metal bowls either, and I believe amla is one of them. It is safer to use plastic but I do know that many Indian women let their henna dye release in iron bowls…so the info out there is confusing. I was always taught to never use metal when mixing dye of any kind, whether it be chemical or natural plant based dye. You’re right, our Creator is amazing and I love me some henna and Ayurvedic powders (and oils :) ).

    • Oh about the henna staining plastic…there are special hair color mixing bowls avaikable at the beauty supply to use. Or, you could buy a cheap clear plastic container at the dollar store, and use it solely for your henna and Ayurvedic powder mixing. That’s what I did. I use an old Ziploc plastic bowl for my henna and I wash and re-use it. Henna can stain ceramica like you mentioned, as most are porous…even glass is porous to an extent. Just a little money-saving tip for you! Happy hair growing!

      • Oh ok I guess I could spare a Tupperware for my pastes! Thanks for sharing all this info!! :o))

    • Thanks Bre! And you’re right about the metals, I know it definitely can effect clays (like bentonite) but I’m not sure about the henna and Ayurveda. I’ve never seen anything about it but there could be some truth to it! Definitely can be confusing lol I mix in a ceramic bowl :o)

  6. Be careful. It seems the Natural Highlights one is the only one that’s pure henna. The others I’ve seen have a list of other ingredients on the side of the box.

    • Thanks for your comment! The other ingredients you saw are other ayurvedic powders (natural plants) that help achieve the different color variations. They are complete safe and 100% natural. Some of which I use alone such as the amla powder. Just google the ingredients and you’ll see what I mean :o)

      • Hi. I saw this brand at Sally Beauty for myself. The light brown, burgundy, chestnut, and black henna ingredients are: henna, sodium perborate, tartric acid, p-phenylenediamine, cellulose gum, magnesium stearate, and sodium sulfate. Some of the ingredients are misspelled thought which is weird. But, anyway, my Sally did not have the toffee or plum ones.

        • Hey there, thanks again for this info. It looks like there may be different versions and perhaps the ones sold in Sally’s is not the 100% natural kind I have because I have several variations and on all the boxes I have the ingredients are the Ayurvedic plants I mentioned in my previous comment. I went on Sally’s site and saw what you were talking about and I saw what you mentioned but if you notice on the packaging on Sally’s, the products are called “Rich Conditioning Semi-Permanent Hair Color” and the names of the colors are different. The packaging I have says “100% Natural Contains No Ammonia or Peroxides”. So it looks like Reshma Femme may have two kinds of hair color.

        • Hey again :o) I did some more research and spoke with someone about this and they said that the Henna in Sally’s is 100% Henna but not all natural due to Sally’s policies. They require a preservative for plant based products. Everywhere else Reshma is sold is 100% natural (unless they have a policy like Sally’s). Hope this helps and thank you for bring this to my attention because I did not realize!

      • BE CAREFUL is an understatement. I have used other henna products for blond hair and all worked well with my streaks of gray hair. Natural Highlights turned all my gray hair a brilliant orange, carrot color. I have never had this problem with other products. I will never use this product again.

        • I’m so sorry you had this experience! This is why it is SO important to do research on things like this. It is a known fact that pure, straight up henna will turn grey hair bright red/orange :o) Perhaps the other kinds of henna you may have used contained other plant ingredients like amla or indigo? If so, these “neautralize” the red in the henna.

  7. : Hey! Is reshma femme toffee henna safe to use on hair that has been chemically dyed? My roots are completely natural but majority of my hair is blondish. I last dyed my hair in feb with revlon colorsilk. Thanks!

  8. I saw curl loosening the first time but the color didn’t take as well as I would have wanted it too. You can only see it when my hair’s straight and in the sun. After I take my braids out I’m going to try to recolor using henna for the summer. My friend reccomended to mix it the night before and add tea to bring the color out. Her’s always comes out really nice so next time I’ll take her advice!

  9. This was a wealth of information. I did the BC a week ago and I have my henna mixed and ready for tomorrow. Thanks so much.

    • Congrats on the big chop!!! Is this your first henna? What did you mix it with? You’ll have to let me know how it turns out!! Glad I could be of some inspiration!

  10. I’d be interested in seeing how the plum would look in my hair. I’m obsessed with purple hair ever since Taren916 colored hers but I’d never go THAT purple. I’d probably just pay someone to do my henna though because I frustrated myself when I did a cellophane so I give up. I’m more of a payer than a DIY’er. :)

    Love the shine of that henna gave your hair.

    • Yea I am also looking forward to trying that color out! I did love Taren’s hair that purple color too! I doubt this henna will give you that color but it’s nice to think it possibly could! We shall see! Perhaps the playful plum is more toned down like you said you’d prefer. What is a cellophane??

  11. I’ve been reading the latest posts but haven’t been commenting because it’s hard to type on my phone smh..smartphone my a…

    Anyways.. Lol@ you having paper EVERYWHERE haha! I do the saaaame thing because there are times when I’m like yea I did good and then there go a random henna blob at the most awkward places.. So I guess it’s safe to keep the newspapers.

    I have in box braids now. This is my first time getting them, but I’ve always used henna. The box ones from the Indian store never does anything for me so I splurge and get my henna from Lush, because its already mixed and all I need to do is add water. I never get any color with it, if anything I’ll say it has enhanced my dyes, which I love, but the bonus that I love even more is that my hair is so fluffy/ voluminous after I rinse it out. I’m gonna miss henna for a while :(. Keep at it, you’re gonna love it, and I’m gonna check out Reshma femme. I did try another Reshma brand but it was nothing to write home about.

    Ok I’m rambling. Lol
    Btw – I need to raid your stash..KBB leave in is my weakness :)

    • lol! It’s okie if you don’t comment :o) I don’t want you getting carpal tunnel from typing on your phone lol! but yea girl the struggle was real with all that paper haha my dog and boyfriend were looking at me like uhhhhhhh….ok? lmao! I find random blobs of stuff sometimes too like on my bottles and things I keep on the counter top lol try Reshma Femme if you are looking for a good quality one that is less expensive. I haven’t tried any other brands yet so I can’t compare it to anything. But I hope to keep up on the henna and see what happens! ….and KBB is AMAAAAAAAAAAZING lol love it!!!

  12. Thank you so much for this tutorial!!! So glad I stumbled onto this blog, because you’re hair is IDENTICAL to mine… question: what hair type would yours be considered? Or do you not play into the hair type hype lol?

    • Hi Crystal! You’re welcome and glad you stumbled upon me! lol it definitely is always nice to find others who have similar hair :o) I don’t really do the typing thing really because I feel there are so many other factors that make our hair unique like the texture, density, porosity, etc. but as far as the pattern I suppose I am a 4 B/C ??

  13. Very beautiful results…probably the best I’ve seen. I used henna before on my loose natural hair and I highly suggest using the tea method (there is a video tutorial on my blog) because it makes the color so much more vibrant.

    I’ve had a box of this henna sitting at home because I use chemical color now, but since you say it can be used for body art…I’m going to bust it out! Lol

    • Thanks Jojo! I will definitely try tea next time since you said so! What kind do you recommend? I will have to check out your blog and see what you do :o) You do henna body art?! Take pics and post em on instagram if you do hehe